Some days, you don't realize how much you need community until you're surrounded by it.
When I arrived at Pull Up & Play, our very first volunteer, Ryan, was already there teaching Queenin a new card game while Jessica jumped right in. Watching everyone laugh and learn together set the tone for what would become a wonderful evening. Queenin was having a fabulous time and seeing her enjoy herself reminded me why these nights matter.
Truth be told, I wasn't having the best day.
Work had been heavy, my mind was elsewhere, and I was carrying more than I wanted to admit. I came hoping to take my mind off things for a little while—to enjoy some good food, a few drinks, and hopefully a couple of laughs.
As soon as I sat down, I was welcomed in, cards were dealt, and before long, I found myself caught up in the fun. Sometimes healing doesn't begin with a deep conversation. Sometimes it starts with someone simply making room for you at the table.
After a few rounds of cards, we took a break to enjoy some burgers together. We talked, laughed, and just enjoyed each other's company. Then Ebony arrived, bringing exactly what she always brings—her energy. Even with the rain pouring outside, she brought a warmth that made the room feel even brighter.
We decided there was time for one more round.
By the time we finished, something had changed.
The weight I walked in carrying wasn't sitting as heavy anymore.
Somewhere between learning a new game, sharing burgers, listening to the rain, and laughing with people who genuinely cared, my melancholy had quietly slipped away.
That night reminded me that community isn't always about solving each other's problems.
Sometimes it's about showing up.
It's about creating spaces where people feel welcomed, included, and cared for without ever having to explain what they're carrying.
So, thank you.
Thank you to Ryan for volunteering from Activate Good. Thank you to Queenin for continuing to create spaces where people can simply be. Thank you to Jessica and Ebony for bringing your laughter, your presence, and your joy.
To me, that's what community looks like.
And those are the moments that matter most.